August 30, 2003

Chivalry for all?

The chivalry of men towards their female friends is a wonderful thing to behold. But I wonder -- would there be a similar linking of arms and presenting of shields for a single mother-to-be who was a not-particularly-attractive or intelligent person of no importance who was unknown to any of these doughty males?

Posted by Andrea Harris at August 30, 2003 07:59 PM
Comments

Good point. And if that particular unnamed single mother were not a well-known lefty 'blogger, how many scumbags would be lining up to take potshots at her?

Posted by: mark at August 31, 2003 at 05:47 AM

Also find myself wondering: as the product of a single mother, and a brother to one, and a friend to many others, am I allowed to believe that single motherhood is a generally unhappy state of affairs all around?

Just asking.

Posted by: Dean Esmay at August 31, 2003 at 06:11 AM

What Dean said.

I know plenty of single moms, and not a one of them would choose that status if given the choice. But the majority of the single moms I know got that way via divorce. The way "single mother" seems to be being used in th Australian blogs makes it a substitute for "unmarried mother", a slightly different concept.

Posted by: Gary Utter at August 31, 2003 at 01:52 PM

I know plenty of single moms, and I am one of them.

I would choose that status if given the choice

Posted by: kitchen at August 31, 2003 at 07:38 PM

"would there be a similar linking of arms and presenting of shields for a single mother-to-be who was a not-particularly-attractive or intelligent person of no importance"

i dunno, andrea. maybe if you could get yourself laid, we'd find out.

Posted by: ray james at September 1, 2003 at 09:29 PM

So, Ray, does that pickup line ever work for you?

Posted by: McGehee at September 2, 2003 at 03:48 PM